Why men shouldn’t take dating advice from women

Black Coffee explains why taking dating advice from women can be fatal to your dating life.

Black Coffee
4 min readSep 16, 2023
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I already know what you’re thinking…” But they’re women! They must understand what other women want!”

Nope, not necessarily.

If you want dating advice, take it from a man who is successful with women.

I’m not saying that you shouldn’t get a woman’s perspective on your dating life. But, take what they say with a pinch of salt.

And this isn’t because female there's some female conspiracy, but more because one their insight comes from a place of compassion and two because what women say they want and what they actually want are two different things.

Of course, there are always exceptions to the rule.

But it's not the norm. Let me explain why.

There are a lot of women who feel shame about opening up about their true sexual desires and have been told by their parents, friends, religion, and society that a woman who desires sex is wrong and that
being too sexual early on is being a slut.

So, they unintentionally project that shame onto others. They advise guys to treat a girl like a proper…