Why men shouldn’t get into long distance relationships?

The thought of a long distance relationship may sound good, but is it really worth it?

Black Coffee
3 min readSep 12, 2021

There are no statistics to prove one way or the other whether long distance relationships work or not, but the majority of the people say they don't, even though there are always exceptions to the rule.

The reason most people feel long distance relationships don’t work is that with distance comes insecurity, jealously and most of the time cheating, so to combat this countless websites and blogs are giving all kinds of advice on how to make them work.

What are the pros

There are of course pros to being in a long-distance relationship for both parties, for example, couples don't take each other for granted so when they do spend time together they cherish every minute, they also have their space, which helps if they have other things going on in their life.

But the real problem for men in long-distance relationships is

Women as a whole love to feel that emotional connection with a man before having sex, whilst the majority of men feel that having sex is the start of feeling connected.

If a man is in a long-distance relationship, how can he feel that connection…

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