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Black Coffee
3 min readFeb 23, 2021

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Why men should stop simping

The word “simp” maybe a fairly new word, but it’s not a new concept. When I was young, a simp was a man who was “hen pecked”, called an “unlucky chump”or a “doormat”

A “simp” is basically a man who let’s women take advantage of him and comes back wanting more, he’s the guy who gets friendzoned by every woman he meets, the guy who goes to the most expensive restaurant in town for the first date or more recently the guy who comments on "instamodels" posts on Instagram.

Simping isn't anything new, men have been doing it since the beginning of time, so why is the word now being called offensive?

It's because people have a misconstrued concept of the word and are using it to push agendas.

A “simp” isn’t a man who treats his woman well, compliments women, or values a woman for more than her looks.

A “simp” is a man who seeks validation from women, everything he does is for the benefit of women, he doesn’t know who he is or where he’s going in life because his sole purpose is to please women.

When a man is like this he becomes needy and insecure and in most cases very manipulative because he feels the things he's doing should be replicated or appreciated, even if the woman hasn't even asked for what he gave her.

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