Why men only want women for sex

Black Coffee explains why so many men prefer not to commit

Black Coffee
2 min readFeb 11, 2024
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Is there anything else you have to offer besides sex?

There are a lot of women who seem to think that if they want a relationship with a man, all they have to do is give him sex.

Their understanding is that men are simple creatures, and they will put up with all types of disrespectful behavior as long as the sex is good.

Maybe for a man with low self-esteem but for a man who has options and is striving to be the best version of himself. Sex isn’t going to cut it.

I hate dating apps,but it's not all bad. Especially for a man in the top 20% of men.

The reason for is that if you’re in the top 20% you’re swiped on by 80% of the women on dating apps, which means you have an abundance of women to pick from, and men with an abundance of women to pick from are totally different to women with an abundance of men to pick from.

When a woman has an abundance of men to pick from on dating apps, she’ll generally be picky and say things like “I don’t like his nose”, or “I don’t like his eyebrows, so I’m not going to go on a date with him”.

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