Why Escorts Aren’t The Answer For The Modern Man

Think hiring an escort will save you time and money? Think again.

Black Coffee
5 min readOct 12, 2024
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Let’s talk about something that crosses the minds of many young men today: the idea of paying for sex as an alternative to dating or being in a relationship.

You might hear stories or see advertisements that make it seem like paying for sex is a shortcut—quick, easy, and free of complications.

But is it really?

The truth is, seeing a an escort doesn’t save you time, money, or offer the fulfillment you get from dating and being in a real relationship. In fact, it can actually be more of a hassle than what you're trying to avoid. Let’s break this down.

Finding the Right One Takes Time

The first myth to bust is that seeing an escort is some quick and easy fix. The reality is, it’s not as simple as just picking one and getting instant satisfaction.

Just like dating, you have to find the right one—and that takes time. You might scroll through ads, visit websites, or deal with the frustration of trying to figure out if the person you’re contacting is even legit.

And then there’s the risk of being conned. Not every sex worker is ethical, and some will…

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