Why do women flake on men?

If she’s acting flaky and being hot and cold, there’s a reason.

Black Coffee
3 min readOct 15, 2021

Women aren't as hard to work out as many men would have you believe, and many times they show men exactly how they feel about them, but the majority of men ignore these signs because they lack options or are blinded by beauty.

A person will always show you how they feel about you if you remove the emotion and look closely enough.

If you've met a woman, and she's playing hard to get, is always busy when you ask her out on a date, cancels dates last minute, takes forever to reply to messages, has an attitude when you're on a date or never wants to come and see you, her actions are all telling you something.

As men when something isn’t working our first thought is “how can I fix it” so we spend hours watching videos or reading articles on what do to do when what we need to do is read between the lines?

What the woman's actions are showing in all of these instances isn't a mystery, but if a man is really into her or doesn't have other options and fears being alone, it can be seen this way.

It's simple, she's not really into him and has low interest, he's not her priority, he doesn't excite her, and she may be weighing up her options.

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