Why a man’s purpose should always come before a woman

Black Coffee
3 min readAug 29, 2021

The problem with many men these days is that they lack a real passion and purpose in life, convinced that a woman should be their main focus.

Over time men like this slowly become weak and unfulfilled. As a woman was never meant to be a man’s main purpose in life, she was meant to be the compliment.

Men who make women their main focus are never fully fulfilled, there’s always something missing in their life, causing some to live vicariously through video games and porn with others living lives of quiet desperation.

The reason for this is that they’re cheating themselves, their family and the world of their authentic self, and this is something they’re reminded of every time they look at themselves in the mirror.

When a man has a purpose in life he walks that bit faster, with more confidence, he has that “pep in his step” because he knows where he’s going in life and knows what makes himself happy.

It’s this confidence that draws women to men. They’re intrigued and drawn to the fact that he’s passionate about life and they want to be part of it.

Women love the thought of being a man’s main focus in life, but the reality is a man being needy, clingy and suffocating which becomes tiring over time.

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