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When You’re Her Plan B:
The Brutal Truth About Settling (And How To Avoid It)
In today’s swipe-left-swipe-right dating jungle, a lot of guys think they’ve "won" when they finally bag the girl of their dreams.
Problem is — she might have settled for you. Yeah, settled. Not because you're a bad guy.
Not because you're not trying. But because she couldn't lock down her first pick... and you were available.
Here’s the raw deal: Society lies to men.
We're fed the narrative that any woman saying yes = victory. Wrong. Sometimes, it's her fallback plan — not true attraction, not real desire.
Red Flags That She Settled
1. She Withholds Sex
If you’re always chasing intimacy like it’s a job interview — wake up. Women crave men they're truly into. If she's rationing sex like it’s a rare resource, it's not because "that's just how relationships go." It's because she’s not naturally drawn to you.
2. Sex Ultimatums
"If you don't [insert demand here], I'm not giving you any." Bro, that's not love, that's leverage. Real desire doesn’t need conditions.
3. Disrespect and Power Plays
Sarcasm that cuts too deep. Eye rolls. Public jabs. If she’s constantly…