The mindset men need to cultivate to attract the woman of their dreams

Black Coffee explains why men need to develop an abundance mindset if they want to be attractive to women and breaks down how to develop it.

If more men developed an abundance mindset, there would be less toxic relationships and fewer men blaming women for their lack of success in relationships.

The reason is that when a man has an abundance mindset he knows that there are plenty of amazing women out there waiting to date him which prevents him from falling into the trap of being clingy and needy in relationships or worrying about first dates, women flaking, him being ghosted or messing up on the first date.

He also doesn't pedastalize women and when he meets an attractive woman, he doesn't look at her like she is some type of goddess to be admired. He sees her as she really is – just a normal person – and treats her accordingly.

This is because he knows that he's the source of his happiness and that regardless of what happens between him and her, it will never affect how he sees himself or his worth.

He's happy with or without a woman and knows that she's the compliment to his life, not his whole life. If she wants to be with him…