The fastest way for men to know if they’re dealing with a goldigger before the first date

Is she a goldigger? Here is how to find out.

Black Coffee
2 min readNov 1, 2021

Not all women are golddiggers but if you’re a man who leads with his wallet and puts women on a pedestal because of their looks you’re probably going to attract them.

A first date isn't to impress a woman, it's to find out her nature and see if you want to go on another date with her.

You’re there to find out among other things if she is interesting, cooperative, caring, kind, sexual and has an interest in you

You're not going to find this out if you're going into the date like it's an audition.

The best way to find this out if she really likes you for you is to take her to an inexpensive place where you can talk, for example, happy hour at a bar in the week or a stroll around a beautiful park.

If the woman goes for this, then she also genuinely wants to get to know you and isn’t just looking for an expensive date with you footing the bill.

Before the date, send her the text with the date details and see how she responds. If she says no, you have your answer, if she tries to change the place to somewhere expensive you’re also dealing with a woman who isn’t cooperative, so it’s best to save your time and MONEY and walk away.

A woman with high interest in you doesn't care where she goes with you on the first date. She just wants to be with you. Remember that.

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