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Stop listening to women

Black Coffee explains why the best way to be successful with women is to stop listening to them

Black Coffee
4 min readJan 7, 2024
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There are a lot of frustrated single men angry at women and the men who are successful with them, if you’re one of these guys, this is the article for you.

First things first…..

Stop listening to what women say

Yes you heard right.

If you want to attract the perfect woman for you, you have to stop sitting around trying to work out what would impress women or how to be different from their exes and instead, work on what you want out of life, what you will and won’t tolerate from a woman, how a woman should fit in to your schedule and then decide on where you’re going in life.

Once you've done this…

Understand that there are thousands of women searching for a man like you, and your job is to find them.

Now you have this knowledge, dating becomes so much easier and that's because if you feel that a woman doesn't make a good fit in your life, you can just move on.

This means loving who you are when you look in the mirror being unapologetically about it, even if it annoys a woman.

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