Porn and instamodels are keeping modern men single

Black Coffee explains how following instamodels and watching too much porn is keeping men single and what men can do about it.

Black Coffee

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If you're a single man who has an Instagram timeline filled with instamodels trying to grab your attention.

Take an hour or even a day, if you follow that many, and unfollow everyone.

Why?

These reason why is because these platforms create an almost mythical stature around women, which keeps men feeling dependent and powerless around them.

This mythical stature has turned beautiful women into celebrities overnight for doing nothing other than looking good.

What do you get from following these women and commenting and liking their page?

Do you think you'd be able to date one? What would dating an Instagram model do for you? How will she improve your life?

The problem you now have is, you look at her and other beautiful women like celebrities, and you're going to act like that, when you're around them, which is to basically be in awe.

Which is a turn-off because you'll always be trying to please them all the time.

What value will this woman bring into your life? Only a man with extremely low self-esteem would believe that having a beautiful young woman would somehow give him worth, meaning, and value.

The majority of those women will not date you, no matter how much you like or comment on their pictures.

The truth is, these Instagram models and Onlyfans porn stars have little or no respect for their followers. How many comments from men do they reply to?

They don't reply because they see the guys as desperate creeps who lack options and tolerate them for the money it will generate in the future.

If you only want to date a woman who needs to be noticed and validated for her physical appearance all the time, you're in trouble because the validation you give her will never be enough. Plus, the attention she gets from other men will keep you up at night.

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