Porn and instamodels are keeping modern men single

Black Coffee explains how following instamodels and watching too much porn is keeping men single and what men can do about it.

Black Coffee
3 min readJan 19, 2024
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If you're a single man who has an Instagram timeline filled with instamodels trying to grab your attention.

Take an hour or even a day, if you follow that many, and unfollow everyone.

Why?

These reason why is because these platforms create an almost mythical stature around women, which keeps men feeling dependent and powerless around them.

This mythical stature has turned beautiful women into celebrities overnight for doing nothing other than looking good.

What do you get from following these women and commenting and liking their page?

Do you think you'd be able to date one? What would dating an Instagram model do for you? How will she improve your life?

The problem you now have is, you look at her and other beautiful women like celebrities, and you're going to act like that, when you're around them, which is to basically be in awe.

Which is a turn-off because you'll always be trying to please them all the time.

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