Nice Guys Are Boring!!!
Black Coffee explains why nice guys are a turn off for women
Before we start I want to be clear. The reason I say so called nice guys is because alot of guys who say they're nice aren't really that nice. If you're only nice to people who you want something from you're not really that nice and alot of times nice guys are only nice to women they're attracted to.
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Let’s get real for a second. We’ve all heard the age-old saying, “Nice guys finish last,” and it’s left many genuinely good guys scratching their heads, thinking, “Wait, I thought being nice was a good thing?” And it is! But if we're talking about romantic attraction—the kind that gets hearts racing—being the “nice guy” often doesn’t hit the mark. Let's dive into why that is.
1. Nice Can Feel Predictable
Imagine this: You go on a date, and the guy says “yes” to everything, agrees with every opinion, and never expresses a bold idea or takes a stance.
It might sound polite and considerate, but it can also come across as predictable.
There’s nothing wrong with being agreeable, but when everything is always agreeable, the excitement—the spark—starts to dim.
