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Let her choose you!!!

Black Coffee explains the signs that women want you to approach and talk to them.

Black Coffee
3 min readDec 1, 2021

Choosing signals are subtle signs woman use to show a man that she likes him. As women as a whole fear being rejected by a man, many use subtle or not so subtle signs to spark conversation.

Women do this all the time, and it's up to the man to take it upon himself and approach the woman if he wants to take her on a date.

Choosing signals from women aren't hard to spot as women can sometimes make them glaring obvious but if you're a man with low confidence your brain can convince you that a signal, like for instance a woman holding eye contact with you and smiling wasn't a sign as a way to keep you from approaching and staying safe in your comfort zone.

If you’re a man who lacks success with women, be careful of this, as the voices in your head can make up all types of excuses for you not to approach which can keep you single every weekend.

Masculine energy is active whilst feminine energy is passive.

Choosing signals are passive, whilst walking up to a woman who gives you choosing signals is active.

If you’re a man who complains that women should approach you, you’re being passive and working from your feminine energy…

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