How to text women like a BOSS

Never worry about texting women again

Black Coffee
3 min readFeb 24, 2022


So, you've done the hard work and got her number. Now what do you do? Do you wait three days until you text her? Do you text her everyday? These tips will get your text game on point.

Always be direct and straightforward
When you are direct and straightforward you find out fast whether she wants you or not, and if she isn't, you can move on to the next if need be. This also stops you getting friend zoned.

Message her straight away
Don't wait three or four days to message her. This might have worked back in the day, but times have changed and with the choices women now have, she'll end up picking another option.

Take your time
If she answers you're first text don't text back straight away, take your time, or you'll appear overeager and desperate. If it takes her a day to get back to you, then chill and take a day to reply to her. Remember to stay cool, calm and collected. .

Add emoticons but don't overdo it
Adding well-placed emoticons to your text adds personality and is a good way to flirt with women but be careful not to overdo it. Avoid excessive emoticons at all costs.

Watch your grammar
Make sure to check your spelling and punctuation before you text her, as it shows you pay attention to details and have respect for her. Take the time to use capitalization and apostrophes when you need to but don't go overboard. It isn't an exam. Just quickly go over the message for mistakes before you send it.

Remember the abundance mentality. There are plenty of great women out there. Hopefully, she's one of them, if she isn't. She isn't. So be yourself and don't say things that's aren't really you in the hope that you'll impress her because you'll be found out quickly.

Set up the date as soon as possible
As soon as you have the woman's number, be looking to get her on a date. You do this by sending a few texts to build rapport then asking what her availability is like and upon finding out setting up the date.

Stay off the phone
Now you've set up the date. Get busy and stay off the phone. Don't continue to text her to check in with her, and if she messages you keep it short, and tell her that it'll be better to talk more in person, the reason for this is that if you carry on communicating with her, you run the risk of saying something wrong leaving her to cancel or of her getting bored with you. Remember, less is more.

She isn't interested if......
It takes her hours or even days to text you back. Respect the fact that she has her life to deal with, and move on with your own.

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