How to go from the nice guy to the man that women crave and desire

Black Coffee gives men ten tips on how to go from a lonely nice guy to the man women crazy for.

Black Coffee
3 min readOct 21, 2021

So…. You’re a real nice guy. How is that going for you so far?

Nice guys aren’t sexually attractive to women, and that’s because they’re weak people pleasers who don’t take charge of situations.

Women seek security and when a man isn't taking charge of situations they get scared and decide to leave or take it upon themselves, which over time leads them to become overbearing and bitchy.

Everyone has needs, but nice guys pretend they don't have any and put everyone else's needs, especially their woman's at the forefront whilst trying to find ways of getting their needs met which makes them become manipulative and passive-aggressive.

If any of this sounds familiar and you feel you may be a nice guy, here are some tips on how to go from a beta male to an alpha.

Ask for what you want
You’re the most important person in your life, and you should come first. This might sound selfish and contrary to what you were taught growing up, but it’s the truth and when you accept this reality you will stop being manipulative…

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