How to find your perfect woman

There are plenty of amazing women out there waiting for you. Black Coffee shows you how to find them.

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First things first, before you look for your perfect woman. Ask yourself a question, why do you want your perfect woman?

Is it because you're bored? Feel lonely? or because you want some special to compliment your life?

If you're the latter, then this is for you. If you're the former then first work on building a great life a woman would want to be part of because if you don't, you'll always be looking for a woman to fill a hole that should be filled with your goals, passions, hobbies etc.

To have a woman who will compliment your life, first what you need to do is get clear about what you want in a relationship, then the type of woman you want and write up a plan of action.

The reason for this is that when you're clear about what you want you have a better chance of getting it.

The plan of action
What are you looking for in a woman? This may sound like a simple question, but there are a lot of men who honestly don't know what they're looking for in a woman and just take what comes up.

When you're clear about what you're looking for, you have a better chance of finding it.

What are you looking for?
Write, what you would want her to look like, be as specific as possible. How tall would you like her to be? How much would you like her to weigh? What colour hair would you like her to have? Would you like her to be fashionable? What about being physically fit?

Once you've done that, write down the six must-have traits you want in a woman and the six red flags that you will not tolerate under any circumstances.

These must-haves and red flags must be personal to you and nobody else because it's you who will be dating the woman.

Once you have done this ask yourself do I have similar qualities and traits as I specified for example.

If you want a woman who is physically fit. Are you physically fit? You want an outgoing woman, are you outgoing?