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How to be irresistible to women

Black Coffee the one thing women can’t resist in a man.

Black Coffee
3 min readNov 19, 2021

Women are security seeking creatures and at times can be all over the place emotionally.

Therefore, many crave a man who is the complete opposite.

A man who is centered, cool and calm under pressure and action based, makes them feel safe because they know in hard times, the man won't get flustered, but instead will be strong and ready to act.

When a man is like this, woman feel safe and this safety allows them to tap into their feminine energy and be submissive to men.

It’s not just important to develop these traits to be irresistible to women though but also for yourself in general as being a man who is centered is one of the best masculine qualities a man can have.

For example. Imagine if you were fighting in a war, who would you want beside you, a man who loses his head at the slightest moment or the man who is cool and calm under pressure and solution based? Who would make you feel more secure?

I know you might have watched many movies, where a soldier's friend dies, and he emotionally runs back into the battle to get revenge but, this is not reality. The best soldiers weigh up logic over emotion.

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