How men can get out of the ‘dreaded’ friendzone

Black Coffee explains why women put men in the friendzone and how men can get out of it.

Black Coffee
3 min readOct 8, 2021

The friend zone is a very real situation for men and getting out of it can be one of the most difficult experiences you might ever have.

The reason why is because if you're in the friend zone the woman now looks at you like her gay friend and is overly comfortable with you.

Contrary to popular belief attraction doesn't grow with the comfort it grows with sexual tension.

The problem you as a man now have is that the woman is comfortable with you and if you try to add any sexual tension to your interactions it can seem creepy to her.

There are different types of friend zones but what I want to address is the friend zone where you've become friends with a woman in the hope that it'll one day blossom into a relationship.

If you continue being her friend the chances of it turning into a relationship is very low.

The reason why she has friend-zoned you is because you were either too passive and wasn't creating enough sexual tension because she wasn't interested and was being nice or because she has a man and wanted attention.

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