Have You Been Ghosted Again?

Black Coffee explains what men should do if they keep on getting ghosted by women

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Have you ever felt like you’re navigating a maze blindfolded when it comes to dating today? Well, you’re not alone. For men in particular, dating has evolved into a high-stakes numbers game where adaptability isn’t just an option—it’s the rule of survival.

Gone are the days when getting a woman’s number guaranteed at least a first date. Today? It’s just step one in a process that feels more like roulette than romance.

So, what’s changed, and more importantly, how should men respond? Let’s unpack this.

Why Complaining Won’t Cut It

Let’s face it—ghosting is as common as scrolling Instagram. But while it’s tempting to complain about the unfairness of it all, men are increasingly realizing that venting doesn’t change the game. It’s like shouting at a broken vending machine—it won’t get you the candy. Instead, men are pivoting, learning to treat dating less like a search for “the one” and more like a strategic numbers game.

Here’s the harsh truth:

Women have options. More options than ever, thanks to dating apps, social media, and an increasingly globalized world. And with those…