Divided by Extremes: How Modern Gender Movements Are Failing Us All

Black Coffee explains how ‘I Hate Men’ and ‘I Hate Women’ Are Two Sides of the Same Coin and cause nothing but misery

Black Coffee
5 min readNov 17, 2024
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In the battle of the sexes, there’s no shortage of opinions. Feminism, red pill, manosphere—every movement seems to come with a playbook dictating how men and women should act. But here’s the harsh truth: most of these philosophies aren’t built to help you.

They’re born from frustration, pain, and unresolved trauma. Their goal isn’t harmony—it’s separation.

Think about it: anytime someone’s main message is “men are the problem” or “women are the problem,” you can bet they’ve got unresolved issues.

These movements are emotional echo chambers where hurt people gather to validate their bitterness and, more often than not, drag others into their misery. And as the saying goes, misery loves company.

The Problem with Movements Built on Hurt

Let’s start with feminism. The early feminist movements were about giving women the rights they were denied—voting, education, and the ability to make decisions about their own lives. Great, right? But fast forward to today, and some corners of feminism…

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