"Decoding the Man Code: What Guys Wish Women Knew”

Get ready to unlock the secrets behind what men truly want—hint: it’s not just sex!

Black Coffee
5 min readOct 13, 2024
Photo by Chermiti Mohamed

Alright ladies, let’s talk about something that doesn’t get enough airtime—what men really want from women, and spoiler alert: it’s not just about sex.

Sure, physical attraction plays a role, but the truth is, a meaningful relationship goes much deeper than that. Many men, myself included, are looking for qualities in a partner that go beyond the surface.

It’s easy to assume that men are driven primarily by their physical desires, especially with the way society portrays us, but let me break it down for you: we’re more complex than that.

So, if you’ve ever wondered, “What do men actually want in a relationship?” stick around, because I’m about to share the real deal.

1. Respect and Appreciation

At the core of what men want is respect. This isn’t about ego; it’s about feeling valued and appreciated for who we are and what we bring to the relationship. Men thrive when they feel that their efforts—whether it’s in their careers, their goals, or their support in the relationship—are recognized.

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