Dating apps vs approaching women

We know which one is easier, but which one is better?

Black Coffee
3 min readJan 4, 2022

Dating apps, waiting for choosing signals or waiting on a woman to approach you are all cases of men being passive, all of which is feminine energy.

Men who approach women and aren't afraid of rejection are being confident and masculine, two things that attract women.

This is because when you approach women you're attracted to, you're doing what men are supposed to do. Taking action. This is the nature of the masculine and feminine.

Masculine energy is active whilst feminine energy is passive.

A man who is determined, driven and persistent will always have more luck with women than a man who is passive and waits around, hoping and wishing. Women love men who are bold and aren’t afraid to take risks because this is masculine energy.

Opposites attract and if a man wants to get a feminine woman he needs to have strong masculine energy.

The more masculine you are as a man, the feminine women you attract.

Approaching women sets you apart from other men, and gives you a chance to interact with any woman you choose, taking back the control from dating apps.

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