Afraid of approaching women?

This is men’s ultimate guide to overcoming their fear of rejection

Black Coffee
4 min readAug 10, 2023
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We live in a society where men are becoming more and more afraid of approaching women because of the messages they have been bombarded with in the media by both men and women.

The modern man seems to have given up on approaching women as they feel a woman will think they're sleazy or because they would rather not get a hard rejection, and instead have decided to fall back on dating apps.

Unfortunately, the way dating apps are set up and the fact that men outnumber women by a considerable margin, many are being left disappointed and, in some cases, bitter at women.

You already know how I feel about dating apps.

If this sounds like you, then I have the ultimate guide to overcoming your fear of rejection.

First, what you have you to do is change the way you see rejection.

She's not rejecting you

When you approach a woman, and she turns you down. She's not turning YOU down, she's turning down your offer. She doesn't want to go on a date with you to the bar, that's her rejecting your offer. Not YOU.

Read that again and let it sink in.

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